RE: POB TALK 23/07/2021 - #55

Hey @abbey877 Different people have different ways of calming their nerves. Somebody’s experience might not work for you here, you will have to identify your way out. But yeah, the catch is to look for positive things around you. Whatever motivates you or makes you happy, could me a vacation, good food, family time or music, you need to take that up to get yourself out of the mode. Things will eventually fall in place; after every night there’s a day, sun rises and brightens our life. So there is no way yours is gonna lay in dark.

You can also share your heart with those you trust, sometimes that really helps.

Perfect.one from you and this question is a very good one to me ,cause I have this strong believe that life in it own won't.be always fair,which means their re time that things will surely not go as plan or even shifted a Little bit off our plan

Before I really tackle this question the way j want to ,let me say difficulties and challenges too is part of what builds up a mann in life and I must say you should totally agreed me with me that failure.on it own us not the end of life is a chapter that you need to stand up from and move forward.

I strongly tell people that mistakes.or disappointment at times is a better.way for you to come better in life or you you to handled that project or thing that you failed at on your first approach very well again.

A life without challenges.or difculties is not a complete life no matter how small it might be,we are all meant to at one point or the other face it

Let me move forward by saying,just like you asked

will like to know how did you encourage yourself when it seems everything is not going well the way you want" as I know prayer is the key but can anyone light or share his or her experience

One thing about life at times is that if you don't stand up on your own ,you might be down for ever and that is the place of nurturing our mind with a very good thought,to me that is where been positive about life even in the midst of failure comes in,you have to pick yourself up,I might not be able to actually share my experience,,but I must let you know that you can fall in life 100 times,but learn to pick yourself up and start again.

I do say that, starting again in life ,is much more better than given up,which means we must learn how to be positive about everything things around us,.any are successful today not because they know how to handle things well,but they keep using a positive mindset even in the midst of no results and they keep getting it

And just like you mentioned too, prayer too as a long way to go in the life of man,it has this special ability to make things happen even when we don't deserve them at all.

But of all we should always have this understanding that we can do much better in life and we should not allow our excitement to get hold of us the more

Well this is a big question..

The truth is that to get encourage in the mist of hard time is not a small job. It requires a lot of confidence.

Generally for me when it comes to situation one just have to develop confidence. A awkward example of this that happen to me was when my mum died.

Although this has a big impact on my life because she has been the only on standing for me. When the issue happen. I was in my final year in University, the truth is that i lost interest in reading or studying because i know my mum won't be there i made good grades from the university.

But then the did has been done. I just find a place in try to regain my confidence and let go of the past and bury the past in the past.

Although till today each time i remember that i always feel bad.

We all have different approaches to solving issues,as for me i personally always consider prayers to GOD because he is my best friend..

Good day man. Quite a good question. I believe we all have different ways in which we cope and encourage ourselves through life despite the daily struggles.

I for one go through it by been optimistic and positive of a better times ahead. I encourage myself with motivating words, music, family and whatever gives me reason to value my time of earth. This things help me hang on and helps me to get through those terrible moments when life seems to crushing one down..

As they say, whatever doesn't kill you, makes you stronger. They also say tough times doesn't last but tough people do. Certain words like those help me see from a perspective that works to sharpen one's life for the better. I also hold on to seeking the face our Father in Heaven by prayears and worship, as I believe without His help we will not achieve much.

Greetings to you Abby I'm doing great and my night was perfect yesterday as I slept like a baby and woke up late nearly missed working time do.

I like the way that same motivation quotes are coming in the POB talk, is really cool as It helps bring motivation to many that lack the zeal to push forward for the day.

I just have a few questions to throw to the house this morning... "I will like to know how did you encourage yourself when it seems everything is not going well the way you want" as I know prayer is the key but can anyone light or share his or her experience.

I like your question and as regard to it, life is not so smooth or cool as will presume it to be. Getting myself encouraged whenever I'm down is through so many thing first I do is to delibrate over the matter that got me down.

All we have to do at such point is have faith and hope for the best to come our way, most things happen to us to keep is off balance and for us to forget the main reason we existed and we should not give in to such thing trying to pull us down.

Rather we have to get up our feet and take whatever that comes our way to be good news and make use of it.

In fact alot of them on board I really celebrate the winners

A big congrats to you,i hope to win next time