When boring is good | the value of peace of mind

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The developments with my wife’s illness forced me to make different choices and changed my risk appitite for the time being. Days like yesterday where we spend the whole day at the acute stay in the emergency department, showed that we have enough uncertaincy in our lives right now. Our financial situation changes as we face lots of medical costs (and cost to make home adjustments to make it suitable for the new situation), plus we should see changes in income due to the new situation.
It is what it is… but it is also something that I can prepare myself financially on (to an extend).

I am greatly reducing my exposure to crypto, not because I no longer believe in it, but because I can no longer afford losing it all. Therefore my first step was to take out a big chunk of my assets and dedicate a bank account to medical expenses. All costs related to the threatment will now be more easily administrated (as I can write almost everything off from my 2026 income taxes) - taking a huge bite out of my investment portfolio hurts, but is the move to make as it ensures we know we have a few sandbags ready for the rougher periods.

While this is still logical (yet painful) - I wanted to maintain some exposure to investing. For that I went back to my F&I roots and set up a balanced portfolio that won’t get me rich overnight but will take away the need to actively manage my portfolio, includes multiple hedges and still allows me to capture some future growth.

I wanted to share the setup here, explain the mechanics and ofcourse curious about how you view this setup!

The idea:

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My setup is using larger liquid and low cost etf’s. I add new money via DCA to avoid any need to time the market. Whereas my main growth driver is the all world etf (60%) The remaining 40% all have a specific purpose:

  • Bonds (15%) Provide stability and help reduce portfolio volatility during economic lesser times (generates dividends)
  • Cash (5%) liquidity reserve, allowing opportunistic investments during market corrections (but idle in bullish times)
  • Gold (5%) the common hedge against financial crises, geopolitical uncertainty and currency debasement (but doesn’t generate income)
  • Real Estate (5%) exposure to real assets that offers partial protection against inflation (generates income)
  • Inflation-Linked Bonds (5%) Help preserve purchasing power by adjusting with inflation, protecting against unexpected rises in consumer prices (small income, most of the hedge is in the inflation correction of the underlying assets)
  • Emerging Markets (5%) While not a traditional hedge, this allocation diversifies geographical and economic exposure beyond developed markets specifically interesting now with the global instability

Managing this portfolio is rather easy. I made a spreadsheet where I included both the target % allocation aswell as the actual % allocation. When it is time to add new funds I just look at the ranges that I set out for each asset class:

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  • If all assets are within their target range, I simply add my funds to “all world” + cash reserve.
  • If an asset is below the target range I use my funds to increase that %.
  • If an asset is above the target range I just let it delute over time rather than actively selling it - with gold and cash I am a little more active (meaning actively reducing them when out of range) as these do not generate income by themselves (but are extra valuable when everything else is down).

(Edit: specifically I use these assets:)

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Long story short; current situation forces me to make some changes, set up robust balanced portfolio that does capture some growth



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I am really sorry about your wife's situation. I read through some of your other posts so I am up to date on what has been happening. Like I said, I am really sorry. Just remember, you are going through this too so please try to take care of yourself.

Pivoting to your investment portfolio, I really like this setup. Especially because of the peace of mind angle.... Peace of mind is underrated and hard to value. (:

I think the World ETF in particular is a good move based on your objectives. You will get a lot more diversification than if you put it in something like S&P 500 Index. I may actually buy some of this world ETF myself so thank you for sharing.

One thing I think is interesting is the bond fund allocation you have right now. I prefer money markets right now but if interest rates drop you will end up doing better with the bond allocation.

Good luck with your wife's treatment and good luck with your portfolio!

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Thank you! Yeah, it is hard! Especially to endure that I won't be able to fix it, nor take away my wife & kids pain and worries and accepting that I am doing all that I can.

On the portfolio, cheers! Glad it inspired you a bit! I expect a slightly higher long term result from bonds vs money markets (while bonds can even increase a bit when stocks go south) but both are solid options (portfolio beta with my setup 0,67, with money markets 0,66). World vs S&P would increase it from 0,67 to 0,71 - still relatively defensive but way more concentrated. I feel world is very helpful with generating peace of mind!

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Being present and being able to pay for the treatment is a really big deal. In this case, “doing all you can” is still doing a lot and I think it’s great your family has you to support them.

On the portfolio, I like that you are able to test out different betas so easily 😃

Longterm I would expect bonds to do better than money markets as well, so we are in agreement there.

World vs S&P would increase it from 0,67 to 0,71 - still relatively defensive but way more concentrated.

This is a very good point and the main reason I like this World ETF..... The S&P is so concentrated right now it’s mind blowing!

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I agree with your approach financially, your situation changed drastically and so your investing also needed to be updated. Selling off a fair amount of crypto is something necessary in times like yours, I have done the same recently due to medical/dental expenses that popped up. The money doesn't come from nowhere... Your exposure to risk has been decreased and that's a good thing right now!

I hope things are going well, and that your wife is hanging in there in such a tough time.

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Thanks my friend!

Yeah, sometimes we just need to face reality make adjustments. Despite painfull I am gratefull that this provides a reasonable buffer.

We are getting better at living one day at the time amd really appreciate the small things. Monday with having to stay for 8h at urgent care was hard, yesterday she was able to have a friend over for a hour which really give her some positivity. But we are getting there. 12,5% of the chemo’s done!

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